Sunday, August 5, 2012

Asexuality


Asexuality

Carlos Mora Vanegas

Recently referred to on the drive that is representing the asexual, especially those that are not identified to sex.

Of course, this leads to analysis of its scope and what is represented in a time where the Kali Yuga appears much sexual freedom. Asexuality invited to assess their occurrence and identification of many people, in order to determine what sex it is more in us that we are somehow integrated into the sex, not only to satisfy desires, but to ensure the birth of the new generation on the basis of relations that exist affinity, love, coexistence that demand for sex.

Asexuals are normal people who feel no desire for sexual pleasure, not sexually attracted to anyone around them and do not fit into any defined sexual orientation because it is unusual fall in love or have partners often.

They feel at home in solitude and isolation from people, but are very active socially and cultivate a large group of friends who can understand and support. Asexuals tend to create an emotional tie to your partner (if any), but does not involve sex involved. Some asexuals even romantically involved with other people, despite the barrier of friendship and relationship is not clearly defined and can be ambiguous

What sexuality is really at this time? Why has spoken out? What makes people identified with it are not interested in sex?

male. com, on the subject brings to David Jay, founder of Aven, the association holds www.asexuality.org page ensures that asexuality has nothing to do with celibacy. No waiver of falling in love with someone else or to have sex with her. The point is that it is not a priority. According to The New Scientist, such people often have sex without really wanting them.

An asexual is someone who does not experience sexual attraction. The asexual has the same emotional needs that anyone but differ in how to meet those needs. Much of the asexual experience sexual attraction, but feel no need to externalize the sexual attraction. Sort of like how if you have to eat but I have no hunger. Instead feel the need to get to know someone but regardless of sex.

This social phenomenon has collided head on with a few new habits of behavior in which sex is part of the casual relationship. While some start with the sex and then they think meet, asexuals are committed to meet and give up sex in last place or even waiving it.

Given this social phenomenon has already started an interesting debate in society: asexuality is not a reaction against a society that uses sex to excess, even to sell cigarettes, a car or sunscreen?.

While an expert report excessive sexuality in the media, others insisting that despite a supposed sexual freedom remain a number of ancient taboos that prevent normal sex deal, so that advertising uses these fears to bring to the fore that what everyone wants to talk, so that everyone can feel attracted to, but what can not be treated openly for fear of moral or social repression.

As always, while experts debated in the curious phenomenon and treat it as a minority issue, begin to appear dating agencies that find enough customers to generate new business "marriage without sex?. He even begins to hear a statement that surprised in the post-viagra "sex is treintaañeros thing?.

The new debate is whether asexual and always have been, or are people saturated with sex. The pendulum of history come and go, from over the other, bypassing the normal emotional. Not so much, nor too little.

Wikipedia says, quePese many people are not attracted to anyone, few people consider themselves asexual, because it is a known orientation. It is estimated that between 1 and 3% of the total population of the planet is asexual. They are usually treated as sick, crazy or even using that status to cover up his alleged homosexuality. Although there are medical treatments to increase the sexual appetite, many shun follow asexual considered a problem by not physically or psychologically.

There is much disagreement over whether asexuality is a legitimate sexual orientation. Some argue that rather it would be a form of inhibited sexual desire. Have also suggested other causes among which include past sexual abuse, sexual repression (whether it be homosexual, bisexual or heterosexual), hormonal problems, sublimation or may not have met the right person.

But many of those who describe themselves as asexual to deny that such diagnoses apply to them, others argue that because their asexuality does not cause any distress they should not be viewed as an illness or an emotional disorder. Another argument is that in the past, similar things were said about homosexuality or bisexuality, which today are considered legitimate sexual orientations. Due to the limited research that exists on the subject, there is little evidence that tips the balance in favor of either view.

We add that there are differences between people which is defined as asexual, chiefly related to the presence or absence of sexual desire or romantic attraction. Some only have one of the two, others two and others none. There is disagreement as to which of these configurations can genuinely be described as asexual. While some believe the four may be classified as others believe that to be asexual is due to lack of sex drive, romantic attraction, or both.

The sexual appetite of these asexual is not directed towards anything, but a stimulation pulse or sexual release, the exception to this is in the fetishistic sexual desire directed towards a fetish rather than to a person, however this group of people do not generally regarded as asexual (although technically it may be) in any case the level of sex drive can range from weak to strong or infrequently. Some asexuals may experience sexual feelings, but have no desire to act on them, while others try to get sexual release through sex.

For asexuals who experience romantic attraction, it can be directed to one or both genders. These asexuals generally desire romantic relationships (which can range from informal ties to marriage) with your favorite genre or genres, but often wish that these relationships did not involve sexual activity. According to some asexual romantic orientation defined themselves as heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual, this is related to the concept of affective orientation.

These asexuals want romantic relationships are in a difficult position, because most people are not asexual. Although these asexual be able to tolerate having sex with their non asexual, they may be psychologically affected to see that they are unable to find it attractive to your partner, making difficult the existence of a long-term romance. For asexuals who can not tolerate sex will have to choose between: compromise with your partner to have a certain amount of sex anyway, let your partner have sex with other people, find someone who is willing to have a relationship without sex, committing only other asexuals or stand alone

Wikipedia provides a list of famous Asexual: There are significant circumstantial evidence that people on the list are or were asexual. However, it should be noted that on many of them have also been speculated that they could be gay or bisexuales.Isaac Newton, J. M. Barrie, George Washington Carver Henry Cavendish (perhaps suffered autism or an extreme form of social phobia Frédéric Chopin, Paul Erdős, Glenn Gould, Adolf Hitler, Franz Kafka, Immanuel Kant, Christopher McCandless, John Ruskin, Erik Satie, George Bernard Shaw

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